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....because of you! Christmas/New Years, you would think is the best time of the year. Believe it or not, it's the depressed time of the year to many. It's sad but true. One time a survey was done, it was 53% happy and 47% sad. That's almost even money. People stress about money, finances, and it's cold outside. People need to realized that the holiday isn't about money. If you can't give a gift, you can give your time or your love. it's weird this time of year we look back at our pass. Things we should have done, or things we shouldn't have done. Or not agreeing or arguing with family. There's a reason why people get depress, and the reason "Why" is..Guilt! That's right guilt.Someone might had done someone wrong, or hurt someone, or maybe lost a love one. One thing we can't run away from is our conscience! There are some that wasn't good parents, or a good parent, years later they conscience destroys them, especially, on the holidays, and more so if there alone. Some people put their lives before their , and regret it every since. Guilt can cause depression, and depression is guilt, one in the same. The cold weather months, we inside more and have plenty of time to think. We get sad, because everyone around us is happy. We reminisce about our faults, or failures. For those who are depressed, or going through a depression. Do me a favor! Forgive the one person you hurt the most, and that is "YOU"!!!! If you don't you going to put yourself in an early grave. Please, please, forgive yourself! You can't make things right when you gone. Suicide is not the answer! I once had to forgive myself, I had a feud with my mom, once my dad died, I was never going to ever go back. My conscience kick my ass! i went back a few times, and let the hard feeling go, so when she died, I was more at peace than her. I though I was a failure as a father, but come to find out, I was a damn good father. Forgive yourself!!! This is the only way you can move on If you done someone wrong, you serve your time by your conscience. Learn from your pass and be a better you. Believe it not, "YOU" are important, that's right "YOU! If you a father or a mother, your wouldn't have life without "You", you created a life. Next time you look in the mirror, look at that person in the mirror and say "I love you"! Because you are a creation of God. and you might not believe this he don't make mistakes. God might had dealt you a bad hand, but we got to play the hand we dealt. I'll got a quick story, I'll be quick. My uncle's best friend died in 9/11, my uncle found out he went into a coma. No one told my grandma, she a 99 at the times, and we know she couldn't handle it. So eventually my uncle died. So after a few days, my grandma was wondering why he haven't called, so when she found out, a few days later she died. So the next time you get depressed, and think your life had no value. We might not have a great life, but we have life. Then realized that someone else lives.....because of you! Fun facts** If you say the letters S.O.C.K. aloud in English, you will find yourself pronouncing the perfect Spanish for "it is what it is almost perfectly". The most common treatment for angina is nitroglycerin. it come in various forms. Bugs Bunny is not a rabbit, but a hare.        |
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12/22/2015 5:03 pm |
This is the time of the year, people need other people the most. You have good holiday.
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12/22/2015 5:02 pm |
Thanks for the kind words, you have a good holiday.
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You are so right here scoupe. Lots of people are depressed at this time of the year and hopefully we can do something nice for them to at least make them happy! hugssssssssss V PS a very thoughtful post Scoupe.. ty Merry Xmas my dear friend.. Happy Holidays to you too..  Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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12/22/2015 2:06 am |
Once we forgive our self, then we can see the silver lining, and life becomes full of "JOY"!
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12/22/2015 2:03 am |
We all make mistakes, and have our share of regret. But no matter what, with friends and people who love you, life can be a good thing!
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I don't know if I can call it guilt, but I do have a lot of regrets, things that I cannot change, lost moments......and yes, I'm probably my worst enemy....I never thought my life would turn out the way it did, I dread the coming of each new day........I don't wish my life upon anybody.....it is what it is. WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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