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"The friend zone"  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
11/14/2015 8:17 am

Last Read:
12/18/2015 6:17 pm

"The friend zone"

Speaking about attraction, there are some "HOT" women on here! They got the whole package! I glad I have the honor as having them as my blogging friend. But getting back to attraction, if you meet someone and there no attraction, there's no intimacy! There are several form of attraction. Such as: looks, body, mind, conversation, money. Or if a person is just horny, they can find someone they not attractive, attractive that night. BUT, if there no attraction, you might put the in "The friend zone". I been on both side of the spectrum. Being intimate with someone, and being in "The friend zone". I dated this woman, for several months, right away we were intimate, I spent a many night at her home.

I seen her on a date site, and contacted her, after several years passed. She remembered me, and I remembered her. She invite me over, and allowed me to spend the night. No intimacy at all! I talked to her on the phone several time after that night, and one day I mentioned about why, there's was no intimacy? She said, I don't know you! I told her, you know me! We been friends on and off for 3 years! I lost my attraction, I'm now in "The friend zone". WOW! I knew a few women that told me, that they see me as a friend only! Nothing never going to happen!

This one lady, she is hot, sexy, total package like......not saying any names. She asked me to help her move. I got there at 7:00 to help, we got a U-haul and got to work. Around noon, this guy drop by, he told her that he can do one load. She said, OK. So after he took the load. He told her. By me taking this load, I'm fucking you tonight! I'm not lying that what he told her. He said, He's be over at 5:00 sharp. I known her several of years, I only got a hug, not even a kiss on the cheek. So around 3:30 we were finish moving and grab a bite to eat. I told her, i wanted some sex too! I also said, I known you for about 3 years and we never had sex! She got pissed! She said, Don't go there! I'm not attractive to you that way! i only see you as a friend.

That sucks! I'm back in "The friend zone"! When you go on date, you either in category "A" or category "B". "A" is, she's into you, you going to get kisses on the Lips! Not on the forehead, 90% chance you going to be intimate. She's going to call to make sure you made it home safe. She's going to tell you how much fun she had, and set up another date. Now category "B", she might have an escape plan. Strange, I written a blog called the "Escape plan". This is her way to get away from you! There's no kissing, out the picture, you'll be lucky, if you get a hug, or if she stays for the whole date. Don't think she's going to call to see if you made it home safe. She could careless!

If the date is a bomb, don't worry, you lose some and win some. BUT! she might dig in the trash can, or looking in her draw and find your number. So after many months, she calls, and call you by another name, and ask if you can help her move. So my friend, i have a question for you! if you desperate, lonely, have false hope. and willing to go out with her again. You then become a honorary member of "The friend zone"!!!!

Riddle from the Riddler, on the TV show Batman

What has neither flesh, bone, and nail, but has four fingers and a thumb?

Ans: A glove

What is it, that one man don't want to be in, and another man don't want to lose?

Ans: A lawsuit

How many sides of a circle?

2. inside and out









scoupe42 60M

12/18/2015 6:17 pm

I appreciate you reading my blogs, thanks for the kinds words too.


scoupe42 60M

11/28/2015 6:29 am

I'm glad I got "JOY" in my life!


scoupe42 60M

11/23/2015 4:24 am

Glad to have you as my friend!


scoupe42 60M

11/17/2015 8:02 pm

Thanks for the kind words, I try to make the blogs entertaining. I wish I can clone you! Hopefully we'll both be out the "friend zone".


scoupe42 60M

11/16/2015 4:01 am

Morning my friend, there's got to be a connection, if not. "Friend zone".


scoupe42 60M

11/15/2015 7:23 am

Yeah, you right, with her, seem like I'm going to be in the "friend zone" for a while. I lost my Mojo!


scoupe42 60M

11/15/2015 7:21 am

Thanks for reading my blog. "Fuck zone " or "Friend zone" I'm sure 90% would want to be in the "Fuck zone".


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
11/15/2015 7:13 am

Great post here Scoupe.. I think there are a lot of hot women and men in blogland The ball is your court Scoupe. There is nothing wrong with being in the Friends Zone at all. I know you want more but I wouldn't step out of this friendship with her. It is all or nothing thing way I see it when it comes to sexual attraction. hugsssssssssssss V

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nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
11/15/2015 12:24 am

I don't have a set "friend zone" nor a "fuck zone". I like the spontaneity of the moment, but I wouldn't never be deceitful......

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


scoupe42 60M

11/14/2015 9:24 am

If they do that, they are strange! They need to man up!


scoupe42 60M

11/14/2015 9:18 am

Thanks for the comments, I like the term "The fuck zone".


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
11/14/2015 9:05 am

Men talk about the friend zone as if it is a place exclusive to men. Men concoct a much worse place fort women called the" fuck zone". A place where I am pretty and good enough to fuck between relationships and hangout occasionally, but I'm never relationship material. In my experience, the difference in platonic and sexual is simply having the balls to take or ask for what you want. Most of the guys I've fucked weren't sexual material from the look of them, but they sold me on the total package


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