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'Why be married?
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'Why be married? If you want to do your thing, why be married? I had a friend that got married on a Saturday, the following Tuesday he committed adultery. So I asked, why be married? He said, I got to get it out my system. I rest my case. I don't know about you, but the marriage vows mean something to me. Years ago, when I was married, my wife cheated, so I did too. When I broke my vows, I then decided it was time to get a divorce. There are many with open marriage, for example Will Smith and his wife has an open marriage, I guess they both do their own thing, why be married. There was a couple that the husband was a dog. She told me, he did his own thing, so to justify things, he would allow her to get with someone. But they had to meet his approval, and he also has to join in, he could play alone, but not her. So one day, I asked her, so what if you played alone, and he found out. What would happen? She said, I'm scared to think about that! He has a very bad temper! So I told her, divorce his fucking ass! Why be married? There a baseball player named Derek Jeter, a classy guy, who retired this year. he been with multiple women, but it's ok, he's not married, a single guy who enjoys life and beautiful women. Now if he was married, society would had ridicule him for being with so many women. Again, you have some couple how both do their thing, I'm an old fashion guy. My dad never cheated on my mom, she was the only woman he was with, since the day they married and do his death. To me, that very noble! So my advice is, if you seeing someone, and want to go to the next level, but you still feel, you still need to sew some wild oats? Why be married? Riddle time** Why is a bear like a fallen tree? Answer: A bear lumbers, and a tree becomes lumber. Riddle time** The signature stroll of ducks and penguins Answer: Waddle Fun facts: Leonardo Da Vinci worded on the Mona Lisa for 15yrs, by time he died in 1519, he still consider it unfinished. Riddle time: What is Joan of Arc maid of? Answer: maid of Orleans          |
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10/5/2014 8:58 am |
Thanks Sandra, glad you liked the post.
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10/4/2014 4:46 pm |
I written a blog a while back, called "After the love is gone", how can you have a marriage without love?
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Scoupe I agree with you there.. Why??? Get a divorce and move on is what I am thinking.. I am agree with Lynn on this one! hugssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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10/4/2014 1:48 pm |
Well, one thing about marriage or being married, is to find the right person. If there red flags, don't do it! If she don't love you, or if one person in it for gain, run away. To me, the only way the story would have a happy ending, if both people committed to it.
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My personal thought on marriage are pretty old fashioned and traditional, so deep down, I agree with what you are saying. However, we live in a day now where anyone can pretty much marry anything. We have perverted, corrupted and devalued the idea so that in today's real terms, the only thing a "marriage" is, is a way to put lawyers in between people so that one or the other can get screwed over completely when the "couple" decide to go separate ways. No thanks. I have no desire to play that game ever again.
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10/4/2014 10:32 am |
Thanks for the feedback.
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10/4/2014 9:28 am |
Well if you in a relationship and there no sex....why be married???? Sex is important in any relationship, it represent love! if there no love, move on.
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I know some men that cheated only after long years of a celibate married life and trying everything they could think of to bring sex back into the picture. The female side just refused to budge and felt it was "his" problem. I agree though, in general.... stick to your vows. Be faithful. And fair.
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there are men who get married to women who stop fucking once they are married or who promised to start fucking once they got married, but then do not. what do you suggest they do?
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