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Sexless marriage How long is to long to go without fucking your partner ? It's been 2 months sense the hubby and I had passionate sex of any kind but I just am not feeling it. Does this mean it's over after 21 years ? Why Don't You Have Some Dirty Hot Sex With Me ? |
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I'm not sure if your status is saying you've been wanting to leave your husband for six month or not. Either way, it's something you obviously need to speak to your husband about. Are you really asking advice from strangers as opposed to speaking to the man you've been married to for 21 years? Communication is the key. Speak to him. Tell him how you're feeling. Listen to him. Allow him to tell you how he feels and take it from there. Good luck! "I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."
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Maybe you need to look and see why you haven't vs how long. It's it that life is putting way too many tasks on your plate that you no longer have the time or energy? What is taking priority in your life over the sex? Is it really worth it? If you have been together for 21 years there must have been something there for a while. Did it just get lost under all the other crap of life? It's hard to be passionate when the only time you have is between 3:00 and 3:15 a.m. after a long day. Just my two cents
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10/10/2014 8:57 am |
Grab his dick suck it and fuck it
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Listen to Holly. You have lots of options, but first take time to communicate with your spouse, engage in romance, plan an evening out. ie: dinner, dancing or something you haven't done in years to rekindle the passion. Show him you can be be playful, naughty, even sexy. Sometimes people get busy with other interests and things going on in lives. stuff happens. Focus on what you want out of your marriage and express that to him. Don't stray unless you're absolutely sure it's over.
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It sounds like you're just in a rut? Holly's advice, as usual, is pretty sound! Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts! 
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True we should talk I would love to speak softly and have a honest conversation unfortunately the hubby finds it all most impossible to do that but I have to keep trying for now but it's exhausting. Kisses Kristine Why Don't You Have Some Dirty Hot Sex With Me ?
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Kristine, I have to say that I am very sorry that You are in this sort of situation. I know exactly what You are going through and it is a very, very difficult position to be in. I have been in this sort of limbo myself and at times have endured 4 to 5 months without sex from her ... all the little dropped hints, the attempts to engage in a make out session ... to be ignored or brushed away is painful - and I'm sorry You may be experiencing the same thing I have. I can't offer much advice except to be very explicit - Tell Him That You Want Him ... If that doesn't jumpstart things - Show Him That You Want Him !! After that ... I'm at a loss - Good Luck Range Bull From the Gold Country of Northern California's Sierra Nevada Mountains, Range Bull
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We agree with Holly. and if he's impossible to communicate, add a therapist in the room, if he'll go.
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What I don't understand is that you are in the Lifestyle, swinging with your hubby, and still have a sexless marriage. From your pictures and videos, you are good looking, and fuck and suck with champion style. Do you have a problem that Hubby isn't Studley Doright any more, the tight young hunk you are searching for? If you care for him, isn't sending him howling at the moon a whole bunch of fun? Or is he like my love of over 40 years, just wanting to get her itch scratched every month or so, with no communication so I have to guess what she wants and how she wants it tonight.
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6/27/2019 10:10 am |
Same here
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9/11/2019 9:37 am |
I know what u mean
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