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When I ........  

cwazywabbit009 59M
1507 posts
10/7/2016 9:51 am
When I ........

first joined this site it was to satisfy the voyeuristic side of me. As many of you know, most men are visual creatures and I am no different. I was content to just view pics and vids and never really gave any thought to meeting people from the site. Then I started going in to the chat rooms, just to see what was being talked about at first [yes, I was a lurker!] and then, eventually, contributing a comment here and there, and being pleasantly surprised by the friendly response I received. As I got more comfortable, and got to know the personalities in the room, I started to contribute more and more, enjoying the give and take, and laughing at the way the women in the room would shoot down any guy that came in and acted like a chest beating Alpha male.



From chatting in our local room [Eastern Canada btw], it took me quite a while before I actually met anyone from the site face to face. I wasn’t nervous about it, more curious than anything, and I met them at our local Farmer’s Market on a Saturday in the Fall. It was someone I had chatted with in the chat room and that first meet led to other meetings with other people, and an invite to one of the local NoStrings parties.



I was unable to attend the first one I was invited to as I was out of town, but I did manage to get to the next one a handful of weeks later. I had been lucky enough to have talked to a few people about them so I had a good general idea of what to expect but still a vague idea of what was before me. Each person experiences things differently, as we all see things through our own filter so no two people will experience the exact same thing. I was nervous when I walked through the doors and more than a little overwhelmed when I was taken around and introduced to some of the people I had been chatting with in the chat rooms.



I had been told what to expect, and even though the advice was excellent, I was still taken off guard by all the hands that went right to my ass upon being introduced to the women from the chat. Yes, I know that that particular part of my anatomy is front and centre on my profile, more so now than then as I had only a few pics up then, but even though I was told it would happen, I thought they were kidding …… they weren’t lol.



Now, the hands were not all unwelcome, as I felt I had come to know some of them through chatting, but having 5 or 6 pairs of hands on me at the same time caught me a little off guard. And when one of the hands slid up and around to the front, I had no idea who belonged to it [they had spun me around to see if my ass was real]. I had been camming for a few months prior to the party but had only teased and shown hints of …… things so they had an idea of my derriere but they wanted to see if it was as advertised, so to speak. I think the experience really woke the other part of me, the exhibitionist.



That party consisted of me trying my best to remember the names of those I had met …. And failing miserably. I really do suck at names, so now I try to remember a couple each time and grow the name base that way. On a side note, I went out with friends, and friends of theirs, last weekend and I managed to remember 6 names!!!! A new record!! Of course it helped that one of them shares a name with a family member and another shares a name with me, but still 6!!!!!



At each subsequent party, my name list slowly grew, and I got more and more comfortable mingling and meeting people. Still occasionally get taken around by a woman so other women can grab my ass, but the novelty is over [for them] for the most part. I still think some don’t know quite how to take me as I keep my hands to myself, unless I know I have permission to be otherwise, and appear to be quiet, until you get to know me. I have been called a gentleman, and I take it as a compliment, but I also know when it’s ok to be …….



The exhibitionist side of me is still going strong, either on my own cam …. and yes, sorry for being such a quiet, non-restless sleeper lol, or on cam with friends through their profile, where I can indulge myself more than my usually teasing self, where only a select few actually know it is me on cam. It’s nice to wake up and roll over to see a comment from a friend on IM, or from a new acquaintance, even if they were just checking to see if I was still breathing lol.



It has been a fun journey of exploration, and I am looking forward to continuing the journey, seeing where it takes me, as I have met a lot of great people so far and can only hope that continues.






Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/7/2016 10:08 am

And they say chat rooms can't be fun.. I enjoy them to, and I'm so glad you got to know the members and even attended the parties they can be so much fun.

I would of loved to see the look on your face when those 5-6 pairs of hands grabbed you. Some ladies just come right out and take what they want.. Thanks for sharing this with all of us, and have a great weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/7/2016 12:53 pm:
Like anything, chat rooms have their good days and their not so good ones, but overall ours is fun.
Have a great weekend too

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/7/2016 10:31 am

Cool post CW. Good to read that someone has positive experiences here vs other posts. You're getting what you put into it - so to speak Carry on.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/7/2016 12:51 pm:
Too much negativity out there to add to it
And we do get what we put in to it ..... so to speak
Carrying on

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
10/7/2016 3:39 pm

You know I been on this site for sometime and some chatrooms do have some great people in them. When I had moved away for work I ended up hanging out with a bunch from the site mostly girls and had a great time. Meeting people through them. I did end up going to on NoStrings party and to say the least I am glad I went with a friend as it was fun. Would I have gone alone no way mostly couples that attended this and the guy and I dance and had some good laughs too. The person behind the computer on here you might figure out what they are like but it isn't until you meet them face to face that you truly know. Good to see you have had a good experience so far on this site. I know why all the girls like you .. for your bum! Witty personality too. If your still have fun enjoy! I am presently not meeting anymore from the site but I have meet some awesome people back East. hugssssss V

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cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/7/2016 3:44 pm:
You are right as you don't really know someone until you meet them in person. Thanks for the kind words as well

Pepperstarr 52M/51F  
105 posts
10/8/2016 5:02 am

I am guilty of the bum thing, but there is always a quid pro quo


cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/8/2016 5:23 am:
Is a fan of quid pro quo

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/10/2016 1:38 pm

I seriously do not think anyone in this area New England ever meets or at least they have not published a party post. I am happy that you have met folks from here and might be a tad bit jealous- I'd love to grope your buns LOL Happy Monday

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cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/10/2016 4:11 pm:
We have a good bunch here that, until recent events, got together on an almost monthly basis. Hopefully you'll find something similar

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