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Man or Mouse  

cpl4spofun 61M/61F  
27 posts
5/6/2017 9:50 am
Man or Mouse


Which one are you? I often wonder what goes through men's head when they talk to women on here. Let's say you strike up a conversation and most of the time see where it goes. This place can be what you want it to be here, that is why it's a success. I always give a description of my body/features when we first start talking. I don't want to waste their time or mine if there not interested.
I get emails and respond to everyone of them. I feel it is rude if I don't.
I put the title down because I thought about it long and hard of how to put this on here on NoStrings. I enjoy NoStrings. I have met some really cool people and then I haven't met some. I know what world I am in but today I still believe in respect.

If your not interested JUST SAY so! if you don't and just stop talking to me that makes you look weak. I know I can't expect everyone to be like but it can't hurt.

How do you feel when no one answers your e-mails, IM's, or after you send a picture after talking? just saying...you don't have to be mean about it either just two simple words..."not interested". Some even ask me why? I have no problem telling them. My rant for the day lol
I love it when a man says "your not for me"-great-Thank you! that's awesome, at least he knows what he is looking for and if I am not it -I am totally cool with that.
Happy Derby day!

DM482 59M
90 posts
5/14/2017 7:33 am

I agree with you on this, completely. But that's why it makes it so frustrating when this site does some of the crazy things it does.

First was when I received an email from a couple, went to read it and found it all blurred out. I sent a note to the technical support people and received no response. Over the next week or two I kept checking that email and it eventually would show a message saying that I need to upgrade to see what that person has to say.

Fine, I'm not opposed to a paid membership. I'm a former paid member and have tried several times in the last year to become a paid member again. But that's not working. I know it will get sorted but, in the meanwhile, that couple must think I'm one of "those guys" for not ever giving them the courtesy of a response. I don't want to be "that guy" so this frustrates me.

Worse yet are the other two I have had recently where I could see what they said but it won't let me reply. Arrrgh! And yet during all this I have had ongoing conversations with two other couples.

So keep in mind that sometime the lack of a response isn't for lack of effort.


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