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MAKING LOVE  

porterpiper1 57F
209 posts
9/27/2014 5:11 pm
MAKING LOVE


I have a question to all the NoStrings people. Is it possible to make love to someone without being in love? I ask this question because I find myself thinking about when you are just having sex it is empty. Little foreplay and just have sex. I know when you are in a committed relationship you have that emotional connection, and you make passionate love with your partner. But with a Fwb or one night stand is it possible to make love to that person the same why you do to someone you are committed to? Can you make love to a one night stand or Fwb or Nsa? As a woman I know I want to be made love to when I am having sex. Not just little touching, a few kisses and then just fucked. I want foreplay, oral, touching, kissing so I can be really turn on. A little wetness doesn't mean a woman is ready to have sex. I know some men think she is ready if any wetness occur but some women take more foreplay to be ready for sex. I am one of those women. lol thanks for reading and responding to my blogs.

NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
11/26/2014 10:15 pm

If you have the right connection you can make love. It gets to more of how invested you become in your sexual partner that makes things deeper


CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
11/18/2014 6:41 am

I have a new answer for you on this one.

No.

I can't make love or have sex with a woman without making some kind of connection.


TurnLock 67M
577 posts
11/15/2014 8:31 pm

I had a first time with a woman I talked to only on the phone. I was weeks with out sex and I was excited being able to finally make use of my penis. It was a wonderful night for us both. I was not in love with her, barely knew her, but we both made passionate love that night and again in the morning. I agree that making love with your special one is more passionate, but sex with strangers produces a different high that can feed both parties. So I say yes, you can make love to strangers.


CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
10/13/2014 4:46 am

Well, i have two answers... in my youth, yes.
LOTS of flings and one night stands, but i think i made passionate something with them. Always, after a long conversation and on her invitation, but there always had to be a connection. Depending on how wild the night before is, maybe breakfast with no eye contact.

Today, i don't think i can manage casual sex without months of lead in time.


lucd0tluve05 37M
37 posts
10/7/2014 10:24 pm

hello..
One night stand can not make love or can not make sense of sex.this is only lust.. not desire..the charming of sex is working when u have affection , feelings to your partner. there u called awesome sex night or day. may it will be long term or short term. but u should feel her beauty, her voice. her touch, her look, her step. And for it, this is not necessary u know each from 5 or 10 years..
This feelings can come any times to u.. there is doesn't matter u know her from few days days only.. With these feelings u can enjoy ur sex and fuck as well as fore play sex , kissing, oral. anal anything..
You are really a honest person and and know what is feelings means..
IT will be my pleasure if u accept me as ur friend.


scoupe42 60M

9/28/2014 11:05 am

Everything goes hand in hand.


wickedcat2006 49F  
734 posts
9/27/2014 9:46 pm

nice breast.....guess thats the reason there are a lots of bars.....dwl


RideACowboy3021 62M
820 posts
9/27/2014 5:55 pm

I think you can... but you need to get to know the other person and develop a friendship. A one night stand is a fuck... if you become FWB's then yes, you can make love.

Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!


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