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Blogs > benc1991 > Still water runs deep

Don't judge a book by it's cover  

benc1991 32M
6 posts
8/10/2013 4:20 am
Don't judge a book by it's cover
Hello there, to those who actually read my blogs, thanks for your time.
To those who don't really know me yet, well, I'm just a single guy here, looking for fun. Joined quite some threesome with a few couples. Some are good, for some, the chemistry's not there, hard to play along. I'm a person who values chemistry more than anything. No matter how hot the couple is, if the chemistry's not there, it's just won't be fun. And am actually started to be bi-curious.

But throughout my encounters so far, there's one thing that I would like to stress to all those out there looking for fun. Don't go judging people straight away just from that few conversation.
I do believe the importance of having a good 1st impression. But just because one do not pick up phones, late replies, and you go judging that he or she is not sincere. It's like come on, he or she might just be in the toilet or something.

Do met a few couples who are just like that:
one of them shun me off because i do not reply whatsapp for like a few hours as I'm attending to some other matters.
Another couple shun me off just because the women say that I'm not sincere and being pushy just from that 1st phone convo, when all i've did was trying my best to try to plan time and making the effort to meet them as they actually made the effort to call me up.

I kinda think that it is kinda Immature to respond in such manner.
Not criticizing or something, perhaps they do have their reasons, maybe a bad past experience or something, but still.

Well, what do you guys think?
wannabesexpot 50F
4475 posts
8/16/2013 10:23 am

 As you say, it boils down to chemistry.. those who can't wait for a reply just take it as "there is no chemistry". No affinity. Better to spend time on those who you do have a chemistry with..

best of luck!
Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be?


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