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Call Me TEYJJ!  

Teyjj 56M
2573 posts
11/22/2013 6:36 pm

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11/25/2013 7:32 pm
Call Me TEYJJ!

I was looking at a girl yesterday, “turn around and follow her with my eyes” looking; man, talk about legs, talk about ass! And at 6’ 2” she didn’t need those heels! But those heels created an effect.

How could I not stare?

I was talking to another lady while I’m doing this (just someone I knew casually) and when I turned around, there was this other lady looking at me, disgust printed all over her face.

I started laughing and, in my mind, I’m thinking: “Fuck you! If you looked like that I would stare at you too!”

Damn!



Even if she didn’t look like that, once she looked good I would still look at her.

It made me realize that I’ve been kind of hiding my glances when I chose to stare at a beautiful woman, because the women around me seem to think that a man is lusting when he stares at a woman.

That was stupid. I am a man, and men love beautiful women; men stare at beautiful women, even when they’re married to a beautiful woman. Why should I hide the fact that I stare at beautiful women (and I’m not just talking about a beautiful face; which doesn’t mean much as far as being a human being goes).

So now I have one more thing to be a renegade about.

I will unashamedly stare at all beautiful women that cross my path. I will stare at and smile when I cross paths with a woman that attracts me; as long as they don’t realize that I’m looking.

In the end, the only opinion that matters is theirs, and I’m not doing this to make them uncomfortable!

Of course, if another woman chooses to be uncomfortable by the fact that I’m ogling a beautiful woman, that’s on her, nothing to do with me!

Call me shallow, call me a pervert, call me anything. Call me TEYJJ!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
11/22/2013 10:07 pm

 Teyjj everyone is human.. Wow 6 feet 2 she must have been very tall lady and sexy too. I call you a perv like the rest of us.. hugs V

I am whom I am..
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Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/23/2013 9:39 pm
    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Teyjj everyone is human.. Wow 6 feet 2 she must have been very tall lady and sexy too. I call you a perv like the rest of us.. hugs V

    I am whom I am..
Thank you! I think I might have been hiding that for a bit. I think I allowed myself to get caught up in all those people telling me what I nice guy I was, so I was trying not to do anything that might have caused them to have second thoughts.


Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/25/2013 10:13 am
    Quoting grayblue1:
    ...Dude...a rose by any other name...you are a guy...welcome to being a perv....

    now go listen to Aerosmith..and dream of tall woman...

    Blue....
...or maybe "Long Tall Sally"; or better still: "Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress."

Maybe I should write an ode to the unapologetic perv!


Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/25/2013 10:22 am
    Quoting  :
Quoting: "There is NOTHING wrong with a nice glance and a smile at someone you think is beautiful. It is a compliment and feels good to know that another human connected with you for that mere moment in time..." This is what a lot of people can't seem to get. I used to feel so good when I got to a new job and some girl tried to be the first one to 'bang" the new guy, or hear the girls telling each other about my cute ass or my bow-legs in jeans.

I would like to steal your quote from Paramahansa Yogananda!


Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/25/2013 11:34 am
    Quoting  :
I never stare at beauties when my wife is around. She says she has seen me sneaking peeks, which caught me by surprise since I always thought I was so sneaky.

If she ogles a guy while I'm standing there (you might not believe it) I might feel something inside, but mot enough to react, or even be offended.

We’re in a different place now, her and I. She cheated on me before, some years ago. We survived that and got married 8 years later. I trust her, she doesn’t trust me. But I think our love is still strong. I think I’m one of the smarter men since I give her advice on how to look to be attractive (like I know anything!) when we're going out; and, yes, some of it is self-serving.

I learned in my early twenties that jealousy in a man is never a good thing. All men should understand this, spying on your woman, being jealous, all that crap won't stop her from cheating if she has a mind to.

Like I've said, I've been with hundreds of women. I loved a lot. I lost a lot. I learned a lot.


Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/25/2013 11:39 am
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Well, I don't know about other guys but, for me, I would say 95% is 'admiring'; 5% 0f the girls I look at could be call "leering!" Arbitrary numbers, yes,but 5% may be more than it really is.

Plus, as much as I love seeing beautiful women, when they're "pretty" also, it gives me pause because now you have to consider the insides. Not all beautiful packages are as advertised.


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