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Enter The Garden Of Love
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Enter The Garden Of Love I am writing this based on a post by one of my new friends on this site. I have friends who have often ridiculed my penchant for falling in love with beautiful women. One of my friend is the perennial womanizer. He’s always on the hunt and he tells the woman up-front that he’s married and just looking for sex. The way he sees it, the worst she can do is say no… and he’ll move on to the next girl; if she says yes then it’s all good. He figures that’s a win-win situation for him. The other friend never experienced having a girl-friend or real sex until way in his 20s; a rather rocky experience for him. The next girl he had he married to her. He tries to tell me about falling in love. That’s like a 10 year-old telling me about good sex. I have visited the garden of love a few times, and I’m telling you, the journey is indeed a wondrous thing. And when you get there, it’s a garden that you never ever want to leave. But when you are forced to leave, that same wonderful road you traveled on to get to that garden, it becomes real rocky. Most people swear they will never ever travel to that garden again. But the mistake a lot of people make is to fixate on the terrible road they had to travel when they were forced out of the garden. It’s a terrible editing job because they completely delete the road traveled to get to the garden, which was so wonderful at the time; they delete the time spent in the garden of love, completely forgetting what a wonderful experience it was. The only thing not deleted is the road traveled after they were expelled from the garden. That rocky road becomes the main focus and they never forget how terrible the road back was. Now, if they would, they could go into the recycle bin recover those memories and see what a great time it might have been while it lasted and try to duplicate those memories in another garden. The one thing I have found in my desire to retire in a garden of love is that there are many such gardens in the game of life. The point to all this is that: falling in love is a wonderful feeling. Being in love is one of the greatest feelings in life. The greatest moments in my life has been those times when I was in love. So when I come across a girl that elicits that feeling of love deep within me I don’t back away, and I don’t worry. I love to fall in love. I guess you could say I live for falling in love. I have fallen in love so many times; and they were good times, and they were with some of the greatest girls ever. I have also been dumped almost as many times, as a result of which I have gone so many weeks without being able to eat properly because I was so heart-broken. After a while I was ready again (regardless of how terrible it hurt before), ready for the next adventure in that beautiful garden, keeping my fingers crossed that this time it would work to perfection. Now, I have some great dreams every night and every night I go to sleep I hope my dreams will be about one of those girls. Maybe you just need to be crazy like this Gemini; maybe you just need to believe that there is someone who was made just for you. You just need to be prepared. In the meantime get as much practice as you can, so when that someone comes along there won’t be anything for you to re-learn. Oh, I’m just being ridiculous! True love, real love is there for all. But can your heart recognize it?  |
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You might not be able to enjoy it but, when you fall in love, just enjoy all the way through to the end (if there's an end). And if there are rocky times, treat the rocky times like how you treat the flu: You know it will feel bad in the moment, but three weeks down the line, you are going to forget that you were sick three weeks earlier. I always have fun when I fall in love; I'll worry about the rest later (you have to understand that Geminis are a little crazy). 
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3/11/2012 6:23 pm |
I love love... I love falling in love, I love being in love... I simply love love. Do I know when it's real and true? Yes from my end I know it but often times... others misconstrue sex for love and end up waiting for what doesn't evolve. shrugs lol Share my journey...I write when my soul cries.
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Quoting: TwiztedFantasies I love love... I love falling in love, I love being in love... I simply love love. This is what I preach constantly, and would you believe there are people who look at me like I'm crazy? I can think of nothing that feels better.
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3/12/2012 3:07 am |
Quoting: TwiztedFantasies I love love... I love falling in love, I love being in love... I simply love love. This is what I preach constantly, and would you believe there are people who look at me like I'm crazy? I can think of nothing that feels better. Share my journey...I write when my soul cries.
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