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No Sex In This One  

Teyjj 56M
2572 posts
3/6/2012 4:47 pm

Last Read:
2/18/2014 8:26 pm

No Sex In This One




Not getting much sex??

I'll probably get there but since this blog thing is kinda new to me, I guess I'm not comfortable as yet. And I don't want to try to write something just for the sake of retaining your attention or getting you to leave a comment, and then just come off as a poser.

I love to read. It’s probably the most important function in my life (next to breathing). Then again, that could be music; I never can decide which. But, whatever; let's call them 1 & 1A. And, of course, work: It just happens to be essential, so I allow it to interfere.

I figure that most people who read our blogs are hoping to read something erotic or titillating, something to get their dicks hard, or their juices flowing, sexually speaking. I can do that too but maybe not on a regular schedule. Though, maybe I can. I always thought that I could be a good writer if I set myself to it.

Well I do have posts that fit that bill. It's just that I'm a very inhibited person, which is rather ridiculous considering that this is a sex site (and I might end up doing some strange stuff with someone I'm meeting for the first time). But I can't help it getting in my way sometimes.

But I've started out with other stuff because it helps me to ease my way in. Of course, I do plan to write about other stuff like television (I Do So Miss Charlie Harper), music (Another Dude I Miss... Prince), movies, sports, comics, race (not a discussion, just how I feel), and other everyday stuff that interest, intrigue, annoy, amuse, or excite me.

It’s really therapy for me to help rid me of a serious case of writer’s block that’s been holding me down for over three years now. I started writing a novel in 2008, got over one hundred and twenty pages done and suddenly could not continue. Stuck. I wrote a poem about an adventure that I had, lost the final three pages and just could not reconfigure what I had written before. This is my attempt to pick up where I left off, so, here’s hoping.

So I sit here and decide to write something, anything, just to keep writing. But I sit here trying to come up with ideas without succeeding. And the thing about it is, I don't really have to come up with anything spectacular so I don't get why I make it an issue. But I'm better off now because now I'm writing for myself and I figure if I do it often enough then I'll get to a stage where I can just sit and write something when I feel like it.

Maybe next time I'll write about the different blogs I've read since I started making that a priority; and I have to say, there have been some good ones here, whether it's the topics, the humor, the designs, or the pics and artwork that's used to spice up the blogs.


TwiztedFantasies 62M/63F

3/6/2012 5:29 pm

lol Teyjj... I too suffer from Writer's Block UGH... the more I try to make myself write, the more I struggle ... so I usually end up doing something called a hodge podge... I write a little about everything and nothing and just let it flow from my fingertips... Welcome to the wonderful world of blogging .. May it make as much of an impact on you as it has on me.

Share my journey...I write when my soul cries.


Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
3/6/2012 6:06 pm

Thank you, T! I have always said that the things I fear losing the most is my mobility, my sight, my ability to write and my music. I think I've lost whatever talent I had as an artist so I need my writing.


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