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FUN?  

vmonika3 46T
14 posts
3/25/2011 5:58 am
FUN?

Well, I have been taking alot of time to "Observe" since i became a silver member.. and trust me i can write blogs about the things that i have seen, heard, and read, for yearssssssss. One of those subjects happens to be about "FUN".

I noticed that the majority of people here have in thier Headlines.. rather insulting things about the subject.. " Looking for people who know how to have fun", or If you dont know how to have fun, im not interested". or one i came across this morning saying "seeking fun, Prudes stay away". Now one or two things can be assumed about these headlines, 1. either the people have come across someone that they are into or want to fuck, and that person came off a little to classy, or educated, or just ahead of the bullshit, and it killed the "freak moment" for the other person. Or 2. people assume that we as adults have never been to an amusement park, or had a birthday party, or even school yard rec time. either way its sorta insulting when you think about it.

Why would we be here if "Fun" wasnt some where in the plan of meeting someone? I think people, men in general assume because a girl doesnt engages instantly in sexual talk, that she is a prude, or simply isnt looking for "fun", I think it all depends on what type of Fun you are suggesting... for example one might think sky diving is a helluva hoot, doesnt mean my 80 year old grandmother would find the same activity particularly knee slapping, or healthy for that matter.

I am all for a medium in which one can express themselves in a manor they could never any other way. this usual falls under the category of this site, Most of the people would NEEEEEEEEVER approach anyone in a club or a bar they way they do here, "hey baby wanna fuck"?, "Hey baby can i suck your dick"?, "eat you out"? etc...etc..and so on and so on. But thats just the point. Where is the wooing? where is the suggestion.. that "I am the better fit for you" or "pick me for these reasons".
or " come morning you won't be disgusted with me or your self for even having a quick romp with me" Where is the fun in that?

I digress, if this was a public place i.e. bar, club, grocery store, or laundry mat, if such things were suggested, or uttered, it would be the equivilant to , sexual harrasment, a drink in the face, your cheek would get read someones palm at the very least, and again where is the fun in that?

Yes this is a sexual site,as most of the men here will beat to death, along with thier cocks, but here is the news flash, most of us know that, Most of us join for that very reason.. to be Adults, act as Adults do, Say things in which Adults say.. and not have to feel judged for that, and of course that is "Fun",

But what ever happened to acting responsibly, Learning what Mama taught us, if we had a mama, That with Adult choices, and words, comes Adult consequences, that with Adult Actions comes Adult repercussions, but then as adults we learn there is no fun in that type of thinking. in Meaning You may think its fun to assume the worse about someone simply because they arent what you are looking for, or because fucking the first pretty face you jack off to, pinch your nipples at.. or slide your fist into your warm Quinny about, (lol)isnt on that same plain as you AT THE MOMENT, Because no matter who you are a 15 min, romp is always appealing, a hook up with no headaches is always gravy.

But when you react about that person or people not being as much "fun" as you are, Remember, why you assumed that, remember why you felt as though sky diving didnt appeal to the other person. or people. or why you were unable to sell the idea of jumping out of a plane to someone; Your delievery was wrong, your approach blatantly insecure, The pitch, fizzled at "wanna fuck"? ...but then again who am i kidding.. no one will think about such things.. because there isnt much fun in using your brain to get what you want. LOLOL





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bigchuckmskitty 54M/109F
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2/22/2013 5:21 am

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vmonika3 46T
6 posts
5/2/2011 10:18 pm

awwww well thank you. I do try to be more than what most of the people are here. however i think i have a bit of an advantage... the margin between me and others here.. is miles apart.lolol



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tatonka65 54M

5/2/2011 12:20 am

Just finnished reading your blogs,very impressive. Not only are you very beautiful but very smart also. I love that in a woman!

XOXO
Joey


vmonika3 46T
6 posts
4/28/2011 8:01 am

thanks



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