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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

Maybe I should consider it a compliment  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
6/3/2018 11:35 am
Maybe I should consider it a compliment

Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I sure could use one. But that is on me.

I wil be as short a I can about updating you on my life. I so wanted to not work for the Man (corporate america), and have what I call control over my way to earn a living. Unfortunately, for the next few months, I will be under the Man's thumb yet.

I did go back to work for my old boss, but I am no longer the boss of anyone, but myself. That works for me, it makes my job less stressfull. This is the first time in 20 years I have been just a worker.

Although I enjoy traveling, I have also missed that lil wipper snapper that came into our lives in August. The lil man who has his grandmothers heart. He has unconditional love for me. He dos his job very well.

One more life event for me, and then the blog. I'm not involved with anyone more than superficially at the moment. That is a change that has been quite rough, especially when the heart and mind don't like the change. Time eventually makes things a lil easier to accept.

If you got through all that good for you.

Finally my blog thoughts. One of the cool things about any dating site, sex or vanilla, is.... you can make it what you want.

I do not choose to use any site for one time sex. I can do that anywhere, any time in person, and I have my preferable places to do that.

I realized I was getting insulted by all the boys (yes I said boys), and men looking for that quicky sex. Evidentally on line is their prefered way to pick up strays.

With that being said, I can spin it in one of 2 ways and still make it seem positive.

1. you think I am hot, and sought out me out.

2. you don't give a shit who you fuck as long as it looks like a female, and you sought me out.

Whatever approach works to get some pussy, good for you.

Just because it's not what I prefer I shouldn't take it as an insult. I will say thanks and move to the next.

That's it actually short and sweet. I hope you have a wonderful day, and happy playing.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
elf123 73M
Ask me for a photo
99 posts
6/3/2018 12:00 pm

 Hope you have a great summer, with lots of seceet smiles on your face/


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54M
Ask me for a photo
59 posts
6/3/2018 12:15 pm

 Well said..


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
6/3/2018 12:21 pm

 Oh, intelligent is always sexy. Personally, I always assumed that any woman (almost without exception) that wants to get laid can always get laid, it being a "sellers" market. I wish you the very best of luck and an adequate supply of acceptable men!


Luv2bottom4u2 67M  
1875 posts
6/3/2018 12:23 pm

 Oh I get it, This was an eye exam !


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/3/2018 3:11 pm

 You know I've known that for some time and have always considered it one of the better reasons not to really send messages of intent. 4 I do have other avenues that I would rather pursue where people are more interested in going out meeting somebody as opposed to what this site implies. Don't get me wrong if I were near perfect this might be an ideal Avenue.
Using more than all the road!


mc_justmc 63M

6/3/2018 3:37 pm

 I'm working for the man, too. I don't mind, regular pay, holidays, vacation!


mikecandey 65M  
29 posts
6/4/2018 4:17 am

 I am glad you're doing well, honey... thanks for updating us on what's going on with you!!! *kisses*

Mike Candey


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/23/2018 10:13 pm
    Quoting elf123:
    Hope you have a great summer, with lots of seceet smiles on your face/
Thanks, I miss my secret smiles.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/23/2018 10:14 pm

 Thank you I appreciate it.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/23/2018 10:16 pm
    Quoting RavenGB:
    Oh, intelligent is always sexy. Personally, I always assumed that any woman (almost without exception) that wants to get laid can always get laid, it being a "sellers" market. I wish you the very best of luck and an adequate supply of acceptable men!
Hi, and thanks for commenting. There are many acceptable men, just on a different page.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/23/2018 10:18 pm

 If you took it that way, it must have been.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/23/2018 10:21 pm
    Quoting s2ndegree:
    You know I've known that for some time and have always considered it one of the better reasons not to really send messages of intent. 4 I do have other avenues that I would rather pursue where people are more interested in going out meeting somebody as opposed to what this site implies. Don't get me wrong if I were near perfect this might be an ideal Avenue.
It's a sex site, so thats already on the table. But, it depends on what we are looking for, or how we use the site.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/23/2018 10:22 pm
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I'm working for the man, too. I don't mind, regular pay, holidays, vacation!
I thoughtnyou were working for you. Hope all is well. You are still sexy as ever.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/23/2018 10:22 pm

 Love it, thanks.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/23/2018 10:23 pm
    Quoting mikecandey:
    I am glad you're doing well, honey... thanks for updating us on what's going on with you!!! *kisses*

    Mike Candey
Thank you i appreciate that very much.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


tease_n_toes 76M  
554 posts
6/26/2018 11:32 am

 Well said!!! And to the point!! Only the totally dense and pretty stupid would not understand!

And I am sure they abound!

Keep weeding!!!


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
7/3/2018 7:43 am
    Quoting tease_n_toes:
    Well said!!! And to the point!! Only the totally dense and pretty stupid would not understand!

    And I am sure they abound!

    Keep weeding!!!
Hi, and thanks for reading.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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