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Updated Message Center Filtering  

rm_allegria49 74F
124 posts
4/17/2013 8:46 am

BLANKETY BLANK BLANK

My contacts in the message center are gone, past and present... I cannot see or read my eamils. Although your format is visible, none of the buttons work. Now why am I here if I can't read my mail???


rm_allegria49 74F
124 posts
4/17/2013 8:57 am

Are there more than 5 pages here... because I keep trying to get to the end of the line to see if my messages posted, but I can't seem to find them.

Wouldn't it be wiser in this context to post the lastest info/glitches FIRST?

Anyway, I'll try again; I haven't been able to access my mail and mailbox for 4 days.

If you do change things around here, how hard would it be to put up a noticeboard page that's easy to find, so that people wouldn't get so upset when things happen to them without warning?


Honeydewy 47F  
3230 posts
4/17/2013 9:51 am

Hiya Aryana - hope you enjoy this spur of the moment poem at the end of this post, I would like to know why is it that sometimes my auto-reply gets sent, sometimes it doesn't? I thought the auto-reply gets sent whenever someone replies to me, regardless - even if I was the one that initiated contact?

I would like that the auto-reply gets sent automatically, when someone emails me. Regardless even if it's also the umpteenth time he got it. Thank you once again HD.


Faces are red,
faces are blue.
Mine's a mere green -
coz i'm a patient honey dew!

Is anyone reading this? I've not gotten a reply to my last post here yet... did something happen?


Dig me and comment on my blog to get noticed @ Honeydewy ! Mod of SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P , Phone Sex & what else? & Oldie Passionz =) Worldwide!.


community replies on 4/22/2013 9:38 am:
Hi honeydewy,

Your auto-reply is to send only after the first email arrives from another user. If there is a several week long break between the last email they send and the next, auto-reply will be sent again. It will not be sent if you initiate contact with another user.

Honeydewy 47F  
3230 posts
4/18/2013 8:13 am

I've switched my auto-reply signature off, then on again. I must help myself, take initiative right? But there's only so much i can do! ^_^

Dig me and comment on my blog to get noticed @ Honeydewy ! Mod of SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P , Phone Sex & what else? & Oldie Passionz =) Worldwide!.


Honeydewy 47F  
3230 posts
4/18/2013 8:19 pm

My auto-reply is still not automatically sent to the sender when I receive an email from the sender. What's happening? Because I use the auto-reply as a "quick reply", but it doesn't work!

Dig me and comment on my blog to get noticed @ Honeydewy ! Mod of SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P , Phone Sex & what else? & Oldie Passionz =) Worldwide!.


rm_allegria49 74F
124 posts
4/19/2013 3:05 am

Well I see that there haven't been any issues addressed since March 28, nor have my 2 posts here seen the light of day.


2TeachMe1964 60F
3608 posts
4/20/2013 2:32 pm

I detest the new message center filter myself. I don't like the pending file. I liked it showing in my active conversations. Maybe if they had a view all option it wouldn't be so bad.


community replies on 4/22/2013 9:30 am:
Hi 2TeachMe1964,

We'll be adding a "View All" option back to the mc soon. Thank you for your feedback.

amurs2nite2 67M
239 posts
4/24/2013 1:37 pm

have you folks also changed the login process/internal procedures in the past week? It' been a bear to log in both on computer and even more so on phone.


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
4/26/2013 7:03 am

community replies on 4/23/2013 7:50 pm:
Hi Sorcha,

The auto-reply behavior is more sensible now-- it would be sent after every single incoming message, regardless of whether you were engaged in an active conversation or not. Now, auto-reply messages are sent after the first message initiated by another member to you, then again after 2 weeks of a break in conversation. In addition to sending every two weeks (when there is a lapse in conversation), if the autoreply date is newer than 5 days, it will also be sent out.

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NOT TRUE!! I have one person that in 4 days has received my auto reply like 3 times now. This is not more sensible. Also, I have sent out messages that are not showing AT ALL in my message center as having been sent. I know the recipient got them as they told me when they saw me in the chatroom. I still hate the new message center and probably always will. The email format rather than this was more sensible by far to me and most of us.


beastman1389 34M  
3 posts
12/21/2015 7:11 am

Hi I realize this thread is now dead, but I just had a query that I wanted to clear up. For the past few weeks, every message I get in my inbox is blurred out and it asks me to upgrade to view it.

Is the inbox now a completely paid feature? Will I not be able to read any of the messages if I'm not a gold member?

Some light on this would be greatly appreciated..


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
12/22/2015 3:41 am

    Quoting beastman1389:
    Hi I realize this thread is now dead, but I just had a query that I wanted to clear up. For the past few weeks, every message I get in my inbox is blurred out and it asks me to upgrade to view it.

    Is the inbox now a completely paid feature? Will I not be able to read any of the messages if I'm not a gold member?

    Some light on this would be greatly appreciated..
Hello,

For right now this how standard members will see their mail. Members have been asking the site management to reconsider this. It was done to cut down on the number of fake accounts/spammers.

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
1/6/2016 6:32 am

    Quoting circleunbroken:
    So I'll never get to see messages without upgrading?
Hello,

At this time this is what site management has decided. It was done to cut down on spammers/fake accounts.

Happy Wed,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


Eatdatyummycat69 58M
1 post
4/14/2016 11:37 pm

I can see every message apart from one recent one sent from a gold member. So what,s up with that? I can read the rest...


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