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A few weeks in and gettin' horny
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A few weeks in and gettin' horny So, we've been here awhile and are starting to get to know some folks...a little anyway. We've responded to some questions and joined some groups and are still feeling our way around. So far it's been pretty much fun. Still, we wonder why people are somewhat reluctant to talks about how they deal with all the issues surrounding swinging. For us, the biggest fear is losing our emotional connection with each other. We believe sex can be separated from love...that it can be purely physical and lots of fun...but we worry that years of societal indoctrination might make one of us stray emotionally should we become physically, directly involved with others. So, we figure we're best of camming, and maybe, sometime, if we ever get real comfortable, with soft swinging in person. That remains to be seen. So, we want to know and find out about what makes this good for you? What do you enjoy about it? What works, what doesn't? Do you fear being discovered by others who don't approve of swinging? How would/have you dealt with that? So, let's see where this goes. Yes, we are aroused by watching folks and hearing about their adventures. We'd like to share some fantasies and adventures with others. Hope all is well with you. Be good to yourselves. Have lots of big, thrashing, awe inspiring orgasms...and lots of little, peaceful ones. And plenty of every other kind in between. Curious, shy, discrete...wondering... |
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9/27/2007 9:14 pm |
Hi We keep our lifestyle close to chest. Our oldest daughter knows we swing as does a single female friend and a single male friend of my wifes. We will be soon doing a MFM with him I think soon as he is a friend of hers from awhile back. We are lucky that our oldest daughter has not said anything to her sisters about it (Ithink she swings a little too) but we are comfortable with it if someone finds out. but we do not wear signs saying "Swingers!". Don't know if this helps but we hope so. Take Care, S&S
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2/16/2008 3:27 pm |
To me the key is found in what you wrote - "We believe sex can be separated from love...that it can be purely physical and lots of fun." That's what you have to always keep in focus. It is safe when each of you knows the other is playing just 'cause it is so arousing and feels so damn good. Likely you each are safe camming. That is very impersonal unless you go back to the same cam buddy over and over again. Avoid doing that. When camming, variety is the key. Also, realize that when you two, as a committed couple, have sex as an expression of love this is far deeper and more special than fun sex.
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nice words that you said.
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