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rejection&ignorance isnt bliss  

huggsuforever 66F
16 posts
6/13/2007 8:49 pm
rejection&ignorance isnt bliss


okies ladies i just had to, those of u who can identify with me, rejection is a part of life but on here the shallowness is incredible and ignorance isnt bliss ,we all need affection and caring even if we dont look like twiggy,it appalls me that men here are so much into the outer then the inner and most wouldnt know what to do with a good women if she was right under thier nose , you put it right out there and they go for something aint no way they going to obtain ,i hate rejection its the worst feeling and being ignore for what u look like rather then who u are is sad, know my ranting isnt going to make a difference ,but if just one man is enlighten and can see my point it wasnt for nothing,to those that have taken that extra step and found us to be just as desirable as others i thank u and for those who have no clue may a large women touch ur life in a way that leaves u speechless

rm_sydDsloth 52M

6/16/2007 1:36 am

i totally agree with you.... more people have to judge the total package instead of a lil piece of the puzzle... totally awesome blog


rm_1babycherry 56F

6/16/2007 8:27 am

hug i know looks are not every thing hun it's what in side hun don't worry it will back fire on those how are asshole


CardboardHero 52M
3 posts
6/19/2007 5:05 pm

Rejection:

I've checked this blog twice now, and its a common theme. Now, rejection is a part of life. I know I've been rejected so many times, I'm actually genuinely surprised when someone says "Yes, I wanna go out with you".

But, I guess, what is rejection anyway? There's a lot in life I don't like. Rejection, I'm indifferent to. Why? Because it says to me, this person isn't interested in taking TIME to know me. Asking and getting told "no" - not a big deal, its off the cuff, they're making a judgement and not even caring to consider. That's not the type of person I want to hang out with in the long run anyway.

The type of person that I do mind rejection - when I try multiple times and chat, and slowly get to know the person, and I'm rejected for superficial reasons.

Eh, such is life sometimes.


rm_Pjlooking3 69M

6/30/2007 3:36 am

Huggs,
Don't give up on the world or at least not on guy until you have at least meet me. Keep looking there are good people out there.


rm_Pjlooking3 69M

7/22/2007 3:59 am

Huggs,
Sorry, you won't believe me what happened so I will not even try but I am very sorry.

P


bigfoot612 71M

1/10/2008 1:35 pm

Huggs u are a Big Beautiful woman and I dig u very much great lips


alphawolf07x 62M
12 posts
5/27/2008 3:04 pm

My sense is that it was really just a reaction to a specific incident...you are more than capable of handling yourself and sorting out who has the character and depth to appreciate "all" of you. I really try to get that sorted out early and rejection just isn't a problem except from those who are so self oriented that they mislead others about their interest and intentions. You put yourself out there and someone just abuses it. But you have to see it for what it is....as move on....just don't let it change the person you are. Beautiful is beautiful....but some just can't appreciate beauty...

Some people will never appreciate a Shakespeare sonnet, or a Vivaldi concerto, a fine wine; nor will they know or experience what is sublime in the touch of a woman, in her kiss, and her growing desire to yield herself, to open and expose all that makes her a woman, all that which is at the root of her soul's passion, and let it bloom forth is in all its wonder....

For those who will never know these things, we should not feel anger towards them.

And, it is true that even those with whom we might experience such wonderous things, we should not ask for more than that it was once shared together....to have touched the sublime is its own reward.

To have it in you to offer that to another is the finest gift one soul can share with another.

Its why we must be so discriminating in our relationships....we should not be so desperate to cast our pearls.....

If we appreciate who we are and what we have to offer, then rejection is hardly an issue, its the other way around....don't you think?


esquire635 72M
1 post
4/16/2018 8:35 am

Huggs,
I too understand. Ever have someone attempt suicide in your presence?
I have. December 26. Several years ago. 2nd DATE!. Brought her Roses and wine.

Who knew how despondent she was?


ErecTimber 72M
126 posts
4/17/2018 4:56 am

Only shallow people go ape over the exterior, real beauty comes from deep within. In time the exterior which at first blush seems so gorgeous will fade, because it is merely for a season... Nuff Said !!


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