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Day Pic - Spankings that Boys Crave - Contemplate - 2007-06 Jun 23
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Day Pic - Spankings that Boys Crave - Contemplate - 2007-06 Jun 23 In the series, "Spankings that Boys Crave" - Contemplate - Focusing the Mind - Pic 3 ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- Ongoing series with a Total of 3 in part 1 of this series. a) Confront - Engaging and Facing Reality of Actions b) Consequence - Submitting to the Inevitable - Assuming the Position c) Contemplate - Focusing the Mind d) Consummate - Delivering the Discipline ------- ------- Pic 3 - "Spankings that Boys Crave" - Contemplate - Focusing the Mind Previously Posted: Pic 1 - "Spankings that Boys Crave" - Confront - Engaging and Facing Reality of Actions Pic 2 - "Spankings that Boys Crave" - Consequence - Submitting to the Inevitable ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- Boyz get in trouble, usually to get the discipline they crave, seek, and need. First is the confrontation. Second is the consequence. Boys dread the confrontation, they are aroused by the consequences as they realize the certainty and the inevitable sets in and now their mind begins to focus. They now process the humiliation of being aroused, bent over offering their body and ass to be dealt painful discipline, and connect it to their need to be controlled, corrected when wrong, given attention when they need it most to redirect. They know they'll suffer from the spanking or paddling, but more importantly they fear crying from the humiliation. Not humiliation of their discipline but the humiliation that they've possibly damaged the bond and respect in the eyes of their power, their Master. The phyiscal position enforces their subjugation, completely turning over all control and all of themselves to their power who is their Master. The only thing worse right now is his knowing he is about to cry and he cannot hold back. He craves the need to release his pent up emotions, to cry, he craves this need to release yet he fears losing his socially taught concept of masculinity. He needs to be given permission and encouraged to cry without losing the respect of his Master. If not, he might hold back, but his needed release is held inside. That is third of the four important aspects of any discipline in reality and in BDSM. If a boy doesn't do each step with his Master or controller, there is no point in the punishment itself, cuz it then becomes pain for no purpose and that's not BDSM or the reason for discipline. Each step is the mental and physical shift. The first was the preparation, the understanding of actions and consequences. The second is the resignation of the consequences, the time of mentally and physically submitting to the power. This third step is the comtemplation and focusing of his mind, which in turn cause his emotions to build and seek release. If he doesn't cry the release will turn to undesired ways to get out. In the pic, this bad boy is already in position awaiting his physical painful contact. Time seems to stand still, moments seem like many minutes. He was aroused, his emotions made him want to smile, now his brain focused on the entire reason he is in this position and he can't hold back the tears. Do not confuse tears with weakness. They are the pent up emotions that must release one way or a worse way. As much as a Master likes to get to the physical delivery step, this begins the Master's realization that he is on tap to make it right. This is called discipline because these first three steps are the real discipline. They focus the discipline of the boys mind, his body, his will, his actions, and his training. ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- o ------- Write me and add me to your network. Dom4YngBDDSfun Msg me anytime. Thoughts and comments to this and all topics are always welcome. Check out a group for Naughty Yng Boys/Mature Men Check out a group for Wanking/Jacking Masturbation Check out a group for Domination & Submission Check out a group for Str8 Guys Rated on Open Cam Check out a group for Str8 Guys Open&Curious 4 More Check out a group for Str8/Bi Dirty Kinky Slut Guys Check out a group for Sexiest Boys Alive Contestants Check out all the posts on my blog. Dom4YngBDDSfun  |
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