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age before beauty
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age before beauty My heart has been heavy the last 24 hours due to me feeling like beauty was chosen over common sense. I have a guy friend, a friend that I am getting to know how his brain and his heart works. No love or romantic notions but a beginning friendship. Or so I thought. As you know when you are in the swinger's lifestyle you have to have an open mind about all things and when you are in a relationship you have to have a thick skin. I am a single black woman over 60, plus size but I think very attractive with a good heart. I know they say age before beauty but really men? would you chose a woman because she was beautiful( would probably use you for all she can get) or for that true friend that is not looking for anything but a good friend and someone to be there when she needs a shoulder to lean on and an ear to hear? Well just throwing this out there when you men chose beauty over age think about when she throws you under the bus we will be there with an out stretched hand to help you up. When you need a ride because you don't have a ride and you are with the "beauty" remember we the "aged" ones will be there waiting till you decide to come out because you forgot what time it was. I am not man bashing I just don't get it sometimes. I am not changing my out look for any man I am going to do it for me and me alone. I was mad as hell this weekend but time heals things, but I did let my friend know he was wrong to hold me up like that but you friends come and go and I have a great support system that let me know things happen. Are we still friends? The jury is still out on that but I know I am more that a good piece of ass and I know I am more than a ride to Beauty's house..............Have a Zellie day And of course that would be me............... 
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the answer to the question....no we are not friends anymore he chose beauty over friendship
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