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Work  

marathonman45202 60M
2252 posts
2/7/2007 11:08 pm

Last Read:
2/10/2007 6:06 pm

Work

My father retired (the first time) when he was 49. I am only 5+ years away from 49, and unless something miraculous happens, I won't be close to retirement then.

I love the work I do, and it affords me a pretty decent lifestyle, but I work a lot! Yesterday, while My Muse and I were chatting, she told me that it seems like all I do is go to meetings, and she is correct.

The best thing about the work I do, is that I essentially set my own schedule. The worst thing about it is that I am often in meetings.

My own success rides on my shoulders. If I don't generate business, then I don't generate income. Sometimes I miss the "luxury" of my corporate job. I showed up for work, and as long as I was performing well (which I did), I knew exactly how much money I was making and exactly when it hit my account.

But, I have a much better quality of life in my current situation. And life is a little more exciting now that I'm not on cruise control.

One of my "jobs" (I have two) is working in building my own business. It is very part time right now, but I know it will come to a point where it will be full-time.

I'm not really sure why I'm posting this, except to say that the last couple weeks, I have been swamped.

I suppose things could be much worse for me, but I really need some time off right now, and it looks like it will be a while before I get any. I want to go to someplace really quiet, where I can read and sleep for a week.

I'm not complaining. I really do enjoy my work!




Eddie5011 49M

2/8/2007 12:16 am

No such place. See you around...don't dare remove me from the watched list....I'll be back!


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 6:55 pm:
You're staying on the watched list!

curiousinlorain7 66F

2/8/2007 3:31 am

well maybe after the wedding you can take it easy for a bit...sounds like someone is getting excited for that wedding bliss...


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 6:56 pm:
I think he is

rm_abbeman12 52M
23 posts
2/8/2007 3:54 am

Sounds to me like you're pretty much "torn" my friend...."working on building my own business", etc....

More importantly, you sound mentally exhausted.....and that's not good....for your goal, your health, your spirit...

I say take a long weekend (or even a short one) pretty soon and just "BE"....read, relax, catch some rays. Rejuvenate, Regroup, and don't feel guilty about doing something relaxing, good and "other than work" for yourself.....Hey YOU DESERVE IT....RIGHT??


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 6:57 pm:
Thanks much for the encouragement!

rm_abbeman12 52M
23 posts
2/8/2007 4:02 am

PS. What's this "wedding" I'm hearing about? Did I miss something?


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 6:58 pm:
It was announced a few posts back - wanna come?

dimplesfouryou 53F
24690 posts
2/8/2007 4:51 am

Wow! I had no idea that mexi could be so demanding...you better shut that independent spirit down fairly early or your life will be hell!

I agree with Abbeman...maybe just a weekend away. I will tell you, my long weekend did me wonders and I didn't even get to go anywhere fun! I think you need a little break...vegas anyone?

Dimps


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 7:00 pm:
Sounds like a long, quiet weekend is in order.

Don't worry about me - I'll keep Lil PP in his place

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
2/8/2007 5:46 am

I think I will be in your shoes before too long - there's a big project at work that will really heat up over the next year or so. It will be interesting but exhausting. Luckily the place I work is pretty humane so I think I will still be able to take a vacation along the way to regroup...


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 7:04 pm:
I guess it's not so bad to be swamped with work that is enjoyable, and in a place that is humane.

rm_cum2kissu2 59F
10784 posts
2/8/2007 6:30 am

Well Darlin,

When you do get to that place, kick back Relax Read, Enjoy, Snooze away to your hearts content but don't forget to.......

BLOODY EAT!!!

Kissu


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 7:04 pm:
Don't worry. I never forget to eat

rm_cum2kissu2 59F
10784 posts
2/8/2007 6:35 am

7 days & no mention of food already, Sheesh What are you thinking, what are you thinking???

& Wine what about wine???


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 7:05 pm:
Beer on vacation

rm_abbeman12 52M
23 posts
2/8/2007 8:49 am

Oh Dimples!! Vagas is a perfect weekend.....and reasonable too!! I'm with you. Do you want to get married and go play blackjack with me?


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 7:06 pm:
Double ceremony?

MataKhan 113F

2/8/2007 10:23 am

Lets go to Tibet sweet


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 7:07 pm:
That is one of my dreams - to visit Tibet!

Canice70 51M
2070 posts
2/8/2007 12:55 pm

MM, if you were to take a break, you'd just sit around on the couch all day watching Oprah and eating cheez doodles.

Work it out-feel the burn!!! [Add exclamatory cliches here]

KILL YOUR TELEVISION!!!


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 7:08 pm:
You are a goof!

rm_cum2kissu2 59F
10784 posts
2/8/2007 8:14 pm

Beers good


marathonman45202 replies on 2/8/2007 11:47 pm:

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