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Very interesting  

gentlelovrjust4u 66M  
55 posts
10/1/2020 3:12 pm

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10/4/2020 7:57 am

Very interesting


I find it a bit amusing to find a married person on here, I my particular case, a female, that is not interested in attached men. Since her profile said, "no married or attached men", I did not contact her to find out why, it is her choice. Her profile also did not say whether her husband knew she was on her or not, again, her choice. This particular female is not the first one that is married and has the "no attached" men in their profile. It is their personal preference which I always respect. I actually wish more ladies would add that to their profiles if that is truly their wish and not just using that as an a "polite" way of saying that they are not interested in me. But I always appreciate a reply, even negative ones and I always reply that I wish them well in their search.

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
10/2/2020 4:14 am

Many single men that I talk to prefer married women because there's less pressure from them to "couple up" and form a relationship like they get from single women, especially older single women.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/2/2020 6:50 am

Well those who do not state specifically what they will or will not accept usually have empty profiles anyway. And I do not bother with empty and grey

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gentlelovrjust4u 66M  
195 posts
10/2/2020 9:18 am

I agree with BiggLala that there probably are a "lot" of men on here with no class. The only reason that I bring up the "no married or attached men" in the profile is that it would keep me from contactinging them and cluttering up their mailbox and wasting my time.


gentlelovrjust4u 66M  
195 posts
10/2/2020 9:40 am

And Author51, I never said that I was only looking a single female though I am sure some men are only looking for that. I have been with both single and married females. I was with a single female while she was looking for an excusive relationship, which she did find and I whished her will when she called it off with me. I find it interesting but not all to surprising that you as well as other people use the term "cheating" when referring to married people that are on here looking for a "playmate". """.I find cheating on your spouse behind their back totally wrong no matter what the reason is for doing it..If one is not happy in their marriage it is time to leave it..Just my opinion on it""" I totally agree with you that if someone is "cheating on their spouse behind their back and without their knowledge", is totally wrong, and they deserve whatever they get when the spouse finds out. I am sorry that you can't seem to fathom any reason why a person might still be very much in love with their spouse but have needs that are not being met. From your comment, someone with spouse who has an illness or who may be in a nursing home or care facility should leave that person rather than finding physical release elsewhere with their spouses knowledge and approval. I am not saying that this is my situation, but my wife has complete knowledge that I am on here and knows about every single person that I communicate with and every single meeting that I have before it happens. I am not trying to attack you, but I think some of your comments are a little narrow minded. Like you, only my opinion.


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