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An Eye of Hurricane View  

PurplePeach72 51F
5583 posts
1/5/2013 10:48 pm

Last Read:
1/12/2013 11:01 pm

An Eye of Hurricane View


Have you ever watched the train wrecks of people lives collide all around you as the pieces of your own life seem to be falling into place? Like sitting in the shared eye of multiple hurricanes your immediate sphere is sunny bright and happy but you can see the devastation all around you. I’m talking about all the people around me who are at one extreme or the other in life. Here’s a list of people close to me getting separated and divorced; my mom 25+ years, my BFF 20+ years, my favorite cousin 7+ years, my sister 6+years, my ex-sister-in-law 30+ years and I’m sure there are a few I’m forgetting. Throw a few broken hearts and terminally ill extended family members for balance. Then let’s go to the other extreme of those I know having or just had babies; Scott & Deb, Cpt & Mz. SAH, our last babysitter, 2 cousins, Jess, 2 other lifestyle acquaintances, 3 GF’s from HS, one of the pet sitters and the other just got married. My sister-in-law and a close cousin are with me on the trying to get preggers quest. Swirling on the outer edges are other tornados of people who are spiraling out of control.

Early next week I get to drive over an hour north to the former home of the Viking to evict his ex-wife and her 2 from the house he bought for her. My poor Viking is stressing about it more than I am. In many perverse ways I am going to thoroughly enjoy myself. Yes, I know I’m a bitch. I really cannot believe that someone with her book smarts is as stupid as to fuck up the cushy fucking life he has given her and would continue to as long as she paid rent and took care of the place. His story with her is not mine to tell but suffice it to say that I despise this woman and have absolutely no sympathy for her. She has been digging this grave a long time. I would like to say that I feel bad but I don’t at all. Does that make me a bad person? Don’t know and don’t care, maybe so but I would be lying if I said I will not enjoy seeing justice finally biting the right person in the ass. She doesn’t know anything about me, who I am or that we are married but I’m sure during the process of the eviction she will figure it out. That should be a fun array of fireworks to see. Once again I am going to enjoy having an outlet for righteous anger and being able to seek out a little payback for all the wrongs. Besides that it gives me a good excuse to get all dressed up and act like an educated uppity bitch. Who doesn’t love getting to do that? I have someone going with me as a witness in case she gets stupid but I’m pretty sure it will go fairly smoothly.

I’ve been very flattered by hearing New Year greetings from several summer FWB’s. I was very happy to see that chatting and flirting with them was not a temptation in the least to want to play again. My libido has been slowly reawakening but only for my Viking. The idea of anyone else is beyond unappealing to me right now. I guess I am in full on broodmare mode…lmao….We have 70-84 days left. Sometimes it seems like forever but I remind myself how far we’ve come.

The shorter time gets the busier I need to get and the more the stalls on paperwork are annoying me. I have a full day of calling everyone from US Fish & Wildlife to check on my parrot’s passport, the magistrate court for the eviction to the IRS. I hate talking on the phone but I hate holding on the phone and surfing through 3-10 people before you can get someone competent enough to solve your problem or answer your questions even more.

Girls Club cookie sales are off to a good start and I am working hard to get things running smoothly before the Viking comes home. I have already warned them not to bother me for a couple of weeks after he gets home. Other that Lil Bit and bare minimum family interaction we will be hibernating with each other. Speaking of hibernating, I really enjoyed my holiday hibernation with its few family visitors. Now it’s time for me to hibernate for the night. Lil Bit is home and will no doubt want my attention since I haven’t seen her more than 5 days or so of her 3 week break. She has a spelling be to practice for and a room full of Christmas presents to put away.

I hope you pervs are having a great weekend. Take care of yourselves and love each other well.



Kisses,
LA


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
1/21/2016 3:27 am

Very hot photo. Kisses


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/12/2013 7:45 pm

Lay on me!!<>3


Willingtofill 58M

1/7/2013 9:18 pm

Oh the joys of the ex. Go girl. Lets know how it went please.


PurplePeach72 replies on 1/8/2013 10:21 pm:
She chickened out and ruined all my anticipated fun! Oh well we still have the potential for court dates...lol...
Kisses,
LA

oldirtybacchus 103M
9536 posts
1/6/2013 9:14 pm

it gives me a good excuse to get all dressed up and act like an educated uppity bitch

And a Queen! This potentially sounds like a giant ball of hilarity. I do hope you tell the tale lololol

I hibernated a lot too over the 'season'. It was really nice

All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus


PurplePeach72 replies on 1/7/2013 2:36 pm:
Your loving QPFB has every intention of telling the whole sorrid tale in its entirety. I decided that I would view it as a sad but funny comedy of errors in this woman's life. I will strive to be a worthy karmic vessel!

I've been thoroughly enjoying my hibernation. Just counting down to not hibernating alone.
Kisses,
LA

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
1/6/2013 9:17 am

Be nice darling, as karma can be a bitch too... and do remember that there are two kids involved here as well. It is almost always best to take the path of least resistance.

Thoughts from the Garden...


PurplePeach72 replies on 1/6/2013 2:46 pm:
I'm not worried about my karma in this at all. I've been nothing but gracious in support his decisions in how to disentangle from her. I have no guilt or remorse in this for her. This may very well be her karma coming back to haunt her but that is her problem not mine. He supported her & her kids for almost 2 years after he had no obligation to at all! They are not his kids and she made sure he could not continue a relationship with them. She made the choice not to make any arrangement or plans for her 2 children not me. She had tons of time to find other means of support in that time and tons of reminders and warning of when it would end. She is still being offered a way to keep her lifestyle as is but the free gravy train is over. Her toxic influence in our lives is going to end. We have our own family to deal with and support.

I have to disagree about the path of least resistance on many things. To me that smacks of settling, taking the easy way and trying not to rock the boat and I just don't live that way at all. I will take the path to where I want to be no matter how hard it is. Resistance is futile.
Kisses,
LA

LadyUnlaced 49F
34177 posts
1/6/2013 6:58 am

So glad you don't have to play the cleaning lady this time! LOL OMG I had almost forgotten that.

I know my life sucks right now but i also know it will get better.

Free your mind. Open your heart. Move a mountain. An Open Book...

***


PurplePeach72 replies on 1/6/2013 2:38 pm:
LMAO...I don't play a cleaning lady well at all. My uppity bitch is always trying to get out...lol...but I will be cleaning up her mess again in this 3rd house! Ugggh, I will be so glad to have the bitch out of our lives.

It will get better but I know how much it hurts to be where you are. I'm here if you need me.
Kisses,
LA

oldschoolwilly 44M

1/6/2013 6:46 am

Being in bed with You must be a hurricane!


PurplePeach72 replies on 1/6/2013 2:49 pm:
So I've been told...lol...Wet, wild and loud comes in waves that about covers it.

rm_ccjazzmin 49F
1641 posts
1/6/2013 5:40 am

Act like an educated uppity bitch? My girl, you are educated..and you play the rest very well.

You are definitely in the eye of the storm...just bask in the sun grrl, you deserve to let the chaos skip you!

Ur.Grrl.CC


PurplePeach72 replies on 1/6/2013 2:35 pm:
Having the chaos skip me is such a new thing. I think that is what made me marvel over how different it is to be outside of the destruction. I do play the uppity bitch well when needed...lol...Hope all is well with you.
Kisses,
LA

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