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Tis the saeson...no, I don't mean Xmas
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Tis the saeson...no, I don't mean Xmas As another year comes to a close, and as far as this site's regarded, the ending of an old year and the beginning of a new one brings change. As far as this site's concerned, change usually means the people we see online. Never fails, every year around this time on this site, and other similar ones, faces (for lack of mentioning other body parts) start to appear, reappear, or change their name, while some choose to disappear. Now while new faces are always enjoyable in this scene, there is always the inevitable clickiness, especially in the chats, that tend to make new people feel uncomfortable. And saddly, it's usually the "make believers" who go out of their way to do so. We all know that the upcoming new year is a time people reflect, and plan to take chances to open themselves up to the possibilty of new experiences. And for those of us who've been around know, meeting new and sexy people for the first time is always fun, play or no play. As for me, I'm looking forward in the new year to get more into the "swing of things" like before my accident finally. And have been actively taking action to do just that recently. And, much like a new person, am once again mustering the courage it takes to actively contact people who's names we regularly see on the site but never hear from. And hopefully result in making new friends, fwb, and fuck friends for time to come. So I'm hoping others do similarly, and muster the courage to contact that profile you've been eyeing and wondering about. Like I've found many times, whether become play friends or not, you do find some fantastic from the other side of the screen. And those who do frequent the chats, keep an eye out for the new couples and females and try to make them feel welcome & comfortable. As we know, for many this is their first step towards the rhelm of experimenting. And with the regular deluge of lecherous "wanna fucks?", many quickly abandon not just the site, but the approach into the lifestyle in general....and that's just no fun for anyone. So if you see a new handle, take the time to make them feel welcome and get to know them like someone at some point did for you. They may turn of to be very fun...and "Fun"  people.And if those sexies I do know and associate with are planning on abandoning the site, please be sure to leave some alt contact info if I don't already have it so we can keep n touch. In case I don't blog before the big day....Have a Happy New Year everyone.
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12/26/2009 11:01 am |
Wise words my friend  I am proud to be one of the "sexies" you do know!!! And since you already have my contact info.. I'll have to give ya something else  hehe
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It takes Little effort to make people feel welcome. It takes a greater effort to make them come back once made to feel unwelcome. Excellent blog Witness
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Thoughtful?!?!? I was trying to avoid that! Thanks Hellz
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